From “Julie’s Gems”: August 2002

As I was channel surfing the other day, I saw a report about car accidents. I don’t remember which station this was on, but the report was basically saying that the reason for so many car accidents is the lack of respect for others. People don’t care if their reckless behavior could take the life of another. All they care about is that they’re in a hurry. It’s not just driving rudeness that is prevalent in our society, but the way people treat each other in general. We treat people like they’re stupid for asking a question that seems obvious to us. We insult or make fun of others for doing something we may seem as stupid. Instead of making fun of people and treating them like an idiot, why don’t we offer to help the person in need? I’m not just preaching to the choir, here, I’m just as guilty as anyone of getting impatient with others when their actions seem illogical. I would have to say this is my self improvement plan for the year. To try and put myself in others’ shoes and remember what it felt like to be in the dark or how frustrating it feels when still a novice. So my desire here would be to try and treat others as I would like to and expect to be treated. I challenge you all to strive for this same goal. To try and not cut others off in traffic; not just because it’s impolite, but b/c it could take a life. And to think first before we speak and assess if what we are about to say may be something condescending or rude. In other words, do unto others as you would have them do unto do. ‘Nough said!